Unlocking Your Inner Kindness & Compassion and the Power of Self-Determination
- The Violet Flame KL
- Aug 21
- 6 min read
by Lucas Chong- for Kiki, Alaskan Malamute, about 5-6 years old male
Thank you, everyone, truly appreciate that, by the time now- some of us extend the helps without asking more questions ... thank you. i love you.
20th Aug 2025, about 430++ pm,
Whatsapp message from XX, "Today i send to you" "U where" "Not allow me to care" ... messages non- stop for both parties in order to arrange Kiki to be here, safely.
Finally, Kiki finally put his legs down, in the safe space.
When he is with me for that evening, exact time from 530 pm till 8++ pm, i just looking at Kiki,
senseless,
voiceless,
thoughtless, everything has to be fill a blank of ____less .... my mind: equivalent to my inspiration: I have to find out more about him. Took me whole night to find out more about him, most probably, this is named as "to figure out". I noticing of his depressing look, in desperation, the feeling of him- being such a bad situation that will take risk or no risk or can i change my risk or luck to be?
"Truly, just couldn't get anyone or anything to do or to help else?"
Negative thoughts running non- stop, never stopping ... in all scenario, dilemma, plan, ... most probably, logical thought never could escape from a being like me to deal with such situation that so chaotic and last minute, plus, i never put in a thought + zero mindfulness just to accept such a impossible task? mission? ... no idea, even, when i writing now at date and time of 1:38 am, 21th Aug 2025.
I remember that: i fed him, talk to him, comfort him with a big towel to sleep near backyard, comfortably ... near to Omega [my old German Shepherd, 12 years old]
put on music "Ho'oponopono ..." 24/7 ...
just have to arrange necessary the next days for grooming.
21th Aug 2025,
6 am: check on Kiki again ... look good, lying down and sleeping well. [My grading: Great, i doing a great task!}
8 am: walking abit, however, sound very tired and still depressed. [My grading: i not good enough to handle this task!]
10 am: i have anxiety because i still have zero idea of when will i send him to grooming- because waiting for necessary stuffs to be completed plus too many factors that caused waiting time. [My grading: just too many excuses and interruption which i allowing it to happen without CONTROL!!!!]
11 am: Now, i known the name of this dog, finally, i know what "had happened" tragedically eventually and actually .... [Read what i have summarized overall, because, i am able to know who am i exactly!!!]
1 pm: finally, i got the task of sending Kiki for grooming executed, thanks to Ranessa.
4 pm: M/S Sun, the groomer, called up,
"Lucas, toooooooo much of pains and suffering for this dog because of mess, tangled hairs ... i think long time, never trim, brush, styling... improper care ... "
"Best solution is: trim his hairs short in order for him to regrow his hairs, it's better for him, this action can check his body ... plus too much of dandruff, flaking ... may be imflammation of the skin too."
My reply,
"Will this affect his self- esteem?"
"Any other possible way to get him less suffering from the hair- trimming?"
"Can you comfort him by talking to him?"
Her reply,
"I will cut it short, talk to him, give him nice treat and food to let him feels good for the whole process."
6++ pm: visiting the process of grooming, he had been cleansed with body- temperature water, good shampoo, conditioner for the 7th time ... to prepare to trim the hairs.
Detected alot of wounds on body after trimmed down the hairs.
9++ pm: fetching him home ... he knows how to run out from the premises to nearby lamp post to has his pee- pee. Then, leash him back to the car, he just jump into the car without much concerns.
Time to comfort him: he too tired to walk about, he just no energy to do anything extra like a normal Alaskan Malamute, the working dog. Let him rest at the big old house of Omega.
10++ pm: i wrote a WhatsApp message in "Ho'oponopono in mylife" group [Reference link: https://chat.whatsapp.com/BoyIbEJETszBaOxaSXjFwd?mode=ems_copy_c]
I have to express my emotion, feelings plus thoughts ... too much for me.
My messages as such:
"Amazing August 2025, look forward,
Wishes everyone has the same thoughts and feelings & remember this as blessing and love to self."
I seek for kindness and compassion from everyone here, I just adopted Alaskan Malamute
If you’re not sure how it looks like-
for less than 24 hours since I received him yesterday 4 pm from a super broken family… long story short, I knowing that I am here to clean a shit 💩:
The dog is named as Kiki by a girl owner, as gift from her parents, however, due to family MAJOR disaster, the dog has to be given away immediately …
1. Kiki is estimated about 5-6 years old based on vet observation and experience which owner has no idea about his birthday;
2. Kiki surely had not been grooming for years, during the grooming process today, rinsing & cleansing for 10 times [grooming session from 1 pm to 9 pm today], aged nailed & never been trimmed for more than 2 years or more and the surface of skin after hair trimmed: discovered the body full of dandruffs plus skin diseases, could be suffering for minimum 2 years … so, what is basic check: ear cleaning? Coat quality check??
3. Kiki is totally under standard body weight based on his breed; which I don’t even wish to deal with the truth now emotionally.
4. Kiki whole body, after hair trimmed, we observed the body fully grown with external parasite: identified as cat and dog mites & fleas …
5. I am grateful that Kiki has not shows the signs of anxiety (trembling, whining, excessive panting), I still take a break and offer reassurance to him;
I just doing it as conscious being,
NOT because
- I crazy of adopting animal as pet,
- or further clearing my karma
- or building my animal collection,
- or setting up an animal zoo
- or functional or identified as BIG animal lover
6. I bringing Kiki to vet for further body and health check tomorrow: I not sure how Kiki’s health condition truly, he may suffer or recover further … I don’t know??!!! Possibly infected by heart worms, (??) or Tick-borne disease (??) still waiting for full examination report.
Most probably, my logical mind over think or feel of anything: he behaved not truly like an Alaskan Malamute.
I am grateful for anyone:
1. Sending light of love and blessing to Kiki with Ho’oponopono;
2. Has wishes to contribute token in the form MONEY, the most practical tool in human life, of anything for next 3-6 months for medical, food, grooming, cares via healthy food…
QR of THE VIOLET FLAME BANK QR ACCOUNT as provided for your action.
Just write a note in contribution: for LOVE OF KIKI
21th Aug 2025, 1:02 am
My learning of life:
What I learnt from Kiki,
He doesn’t gain 🍀 lucky star to meet together,
Someone may tell me, “Lucas, he is lucky 🍀 to hock up with you this time.”
I have a thought,
“How did he manage to survive from these days?”
My sincere 💭,
“I learnt from his emotions and body, the moment when he is eating 🥣 and looking 👀 at me, …”
I just amazed, feel amazing for him …
“It wasn’t because he is was lucky that he found me, “
“Because of his persistence (serving him as perseverance) that got him the lucky chance.”
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