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by Lucas Chong- for Kiki, Alaskan Malamute, about 5-6 years old male Thank you, everyone, truly appreciate that, by the time now- some of us extend the helps without asking more questions ... thank you. i love you. 20th Aug 2025, about 430++ pm, Whatsapp message from XX, "Today i send to you" "U where" "Not allow me to care" ... messages non- stop for both parties in order to arrange Kiki to be here, safely. Finally, Kiki finally put his legs down, in the safe space. When he is with me for that evening, exact time from 530 pm till 8++ pm, i just looking at Kiki, senseless, voiceless, thoughtless, everything has to be fill a blank of ____less .... my mind: equivalent to my inspiration: I have to find out more about him. Took me whole night to find out more about him, most probably, this is named as "to figure out". I noticing of his depressing look, in desperation, the feeling of him- being such a bad situation that will take risk or no risk or can i change my risk or luck to be? "Truly, just couldn't get anyone or anything to do or to help else?" Negative thoughts running non- stop, never stopping ... in all scenario, dilemma, plan, ... most probably, logical thought never could escape from a being like me to deal with such situation that so chaotic and last minute, plus, i never put in a thought + zero mindfulness just to accept such a impossible task? mission? ... no idea, even, when i writing now at date and time of 1:38 am, 21th Aug 2025. I remember that: i fed him, talk to him, comfort him with a big towel to sleep near backyard, comfortably ... near to Omega [my old German Shepherd, 12 years old] put on music "Ho'oponopono ..." 24/7 ... just have to arrange necessary the next days for grooming. 21th Aug 2025, 6 am: check on Kiki again ... look good, lying down and sleeping well. [My grading: Great, i doing a great task!} 8 am: walking abit, however, sound very tired and still depressed.  [My grading: i not good enough to handle this task!] 10 am: i have anxiety because i still have zero idea of when will i send him to grooming- because waiting for necessary stuffs to be completed plus too many factors that caused waiting time.  [My grading: just too many excuses and interruption which i allowing it to happen without CONTROL!!!!] 11 am: Now, i known the name of this dog, finally, i know what "had happened" tragedically eventually and actually .... [Read what i have summarized overall, because, i am able to know who am i exactly!!!] 1 pm: finally, i got the task of sending Kiki for grooming executed, thanks to Ranessa. 4 pm: M/S Sun, the groomer, called up, "Lucas, toooooooo much of pains and suffering for this dog because of mess, tangled hairs ... i think long time, never trim, brush, styling... improper care ... " "Best solution is: trim his hairs short in order for him to regrow his hairs, it's better for him, this action can check his body ... plus too much of dandruff, flaking ... may be imflammation of the skin too." My reply, "Will this affect his self- esteem?" "Any other possible way to get him less suffering from the hair- trimming?" "Can you comfort him by talking to him?" Her reply, "I will cut it short, talk to him, give him nice treat and food to let him feels good for the whole process." 6++ pm: visiting the process of grooming, he had been cleansed with body- temperature water, good shampoo, conditioner for the 7th time ... to prepare to trim the hairs. Detected alot of wounds on body after trimmed down the hairs. 9++ pm: fetching him home ... he knows how to run out from the premises to nearby lamp post to has his pee- pee. Then, leash him back to the car, he just jump into the car without much concerns. Time to comfort him: he too tired to walk about, he just no energy to do anything extra like a normal Alaskan Malamute, the working dog. Let him rest at the big old house of Omega. 10++ pm: i wrote a WhatsApp message in "Ho'oponopono in mylife" group [Reference link: https://chat.whatsapp.com/BoyIbEJETszBaOxaSXjFwd?mode=ems_copy_c ] I have to express my emotion, feelings plus thoughts ... too much for me. My messages as such: "Amazing August 2025, look forward, Wishes everyone has the same thoughts and feelings & remember this as blessing and love to self." I seek for kindness and compassion from everyone here, I just adopted Alaskan Malamute If you’re not sure how it looks like- https://www.purina.com.my/find-a-pet/dog-breeds/alaskan-malamute for less than 24 hours since I received him yesterday 4 pm from a super broken family… long story short, I knowing that I am here to clean a shit 💩: The dog is named as Kiki by a girl owner, as gift from her parents, however, due to family MAJOR disaster, the dog has to be given away immediately … 1. Kiki is estimated about 5-6 years old based on vet observation and experience which owner has no idea about his birthday; 2. ⁠Kiki surely had not been grooming for years, during the grooming process today, rinsing & cleansing for 10 times [grooming session from 1 pm to 9 pm today], aged nailed & never been trimmed for more than 2 years or more and the surface of skin after hair trimmed: discovered the body full of dandruffs plus skin diseases, could be suffering for minimum 2 years … so, what is basic check: ear cleaning? Coat quality check?? 3. ⁠Kiki is totally under standard body weight based on his breed; which I don’t even wish to deal with the truth now emotionally. 4. ⁠Kiki whole body, after hair trimmed, we observed the body fully grown with external parasite: identified as cat and dog mites & fleas … 5. ⁠I am grateful that Kiki has not shows the signs of anxiety (trembling, whining, excessive panting), I still take a break and offer reassurance to him; I just doing it as conscious being, NOT because - I crazy of adopting animal as pet, - or further clearing my karma - ⁠or building my animal collection, - ⁠or setting up an animal zoo - ⁠or functional or identified as BIG animal lover 6. ⁠I bringing Kiki to vet for further body and health check tomorrow: I not sure how Kiki’s health condition truly, he may suffer ⁠or recover further … I don’t know??!!! Possibly infected by heart worms, (??) or Tick-borne disease (??) still waiting for full examination report. Most probably, my logical mind over think or feel of anything: he behaved not truly like an Alaskan Malamute. I am grateful for anyone: 1. Sending light of love and blessing to Kiki with Ho’oponopono; 2. ⁠Has wishes to contribute token in the form MONEY, the most practical tool in human life, of anything for next 3-6 months for medical, food, grooming, cares via healthy food… QR of THE VIOLET FLAME BANK QR ACCOUNT as provided for your action. Just write a note in contribution: for LOVE OF KIKI Kiki in his original- limited space with human food. Can you sense his anxiety or form of desperation in this video while he was in the process of transition to a new owner & space as well which he may not even notice his choice of living? Kiki just surrender himself for this grooming process to trim off his hairs for inspection & body cleansing; which i just amazed with his 100% surrender or included "acceptance"?? During the process of inspection, observed that alot of wounds and required further microbiological sampling for health check purposes. During the final process of healing, treatment, Lian (Groomer) feeling sad for Kiki without serious care and thin body due to improper diets. Kiki just 100% surrender + acceptance of his life? Destiny of life? Fate of life? or Feeling nothing- because Human is the God that could do anything that possible? Kiki at new home, Violet Flame to walk around, however, he just too tired and feels no energy after done his poo- pee business. Thank you, to trust, to believe; time to learn and relearn to restart a new life now. 21th Aug 2025, 1:02 am My learning of life: What I learnt from Kiki, He doesn’t gain 🍀 lucky star to meet together, Someone may tell me, “Lucas, he is lucky 🍀 to hock up with you this time.” I have a thought, “How did he manage to survive from these days?” My sincere 💭, “I learnt from his emotions and body, the moment when he is eating 🥣 and looking 👀 at me, …” I just amazed, feel amazing for him … “It wasn’t because he is was lucky that he found me, “ “Because of his persistence (serving him as perseverance) that got him the lucky chance.” None of us can remember, It’s not the LUCKy 🍀 gives out the chance, the chance is we make a choice at that moment.

Why not give yourself a life mission of Sacred Heart Medicine Journey is to walk through self-as a being with a path of healing so you will step into a whole, true authentic self. You'll experience wholeness through personal coaching, ceremony and healing unresolved trauma of the soul, bringing all parts of oneself together and connecting with the inner Divine, the Higher Self, the true self as an authentic self. At the Violet Flame space, we help anyone who seeks it, but specifically those who are have been impacted by trauma, as defined not by judgment of trauma, but by the true definition of the word, whether such trauma is immediate or ancestral. Our path of worship and healing includes sessions to be set- up either in a private or small group or community support, familial involvement, re-education about trauma, shamanic practices, plant-guided healing, and Sacred Ceremony with different traditional Medicine sourced from South American as Sacrament. We aim not to rescue those in crisis, but to reach the masses who are not living their full path and purpose due to normalized conditions. We seek to assist those who are ready to face their trauma through Shamanic practice. We seek those who are ready to connect more deeply with self and with the space in the Violet Flame KL or some sacred space in the forest that connected to Mother Earth. You'll realize the vision is not meant to be glamorous or directed into crisis, but a well-orchestrated move to address the systemic disconnection from self through Shamanic practice. You've got an option to have the experience either in a private or small group or retreat set- up depends on your choice. Send your inquiries via WhatsApp +60 12 9868346 to us to arrange an experience session.

“A person does not hear sound only through the ears; he hears sound through every pore of the body. It permeates the entire being, and according to its particular influence, either slows or quickens the rhythm of the blood circulation; it either awakens or soothes the nervous system” ― Hazrat Inayat Khan Given that everything has a vibrational frequency, including ourselves, it makes sense that sound frequencies impact how we feel. That’s why particular songs and types of music often bring about specific types of emotions to us. Sound healing, which is an ancient healing technique that uses tonal frequencies to bring the body into a state of vibrational balance and harmony, plays upon this as well. So, how does it work? During a sound healing session, also known as a sound bath, you’ll typically lie down, perhaps cuddle up with a cozy blanket, and simply listen up as a practitioner plays a variety of instruments and you “bathe” in the soothing sounds and vibrations with affirmation, touch healing includes Reiki or Bar Access, essential oils and etc. Sometimes, we call the sound healing session a “meditative acoustic sound concert.”, The sound frequencies then slow down brain waves to a deeply restorative state, which activates the body’s system of self-healing. In Violet Flame, series of musical instruments, include Singing bowls, gongs, Tibetian bowls, tuning forks, chimes, triangle crystal pyramid and drums … are the instruments that our practitioners most often use in sessions with intention, invocation, or affirmation. Each instrument serves a different purpose. For example, Crystal bowls, “are tuned to the notes of the seven chakras.” The gong is to help release tension in the body and stimulates the glandular and nervous systems. And although sound healing has grown in popularity in recent years, it is a healing modality that dates way back. “From vocal chanting to instruments such as Tibetan singing bowls, shamanic drums, and more, you will find some form of sound healing in every culture on Earth”. According to some history findings, sound healing can be traced back 40,000 years to when indigenous Australians used ancient didgeridoos for healing, other examples, include: sound chambers created by the ancient Egyptians in the pyramids. You’ve got an option to have the experience either in a private or small group or retreat set- up depends on your choice. Send your inquiries via WhatsApp +60 12 9868346 to us to arrange an experience session. You could experience the sessions with us either you prefer to be a – energy receiver for massage your body & mind without touch: make self to have super- relaxing moment, the most deep relaxation moment due to stress in the body and mind. – deep healing receiver for clearing energetic blockages: deep healing may required due to chakra or energy blockage, we classified it as “energetic deep tissue massage” that will make you feel balanced and replenised. – new begineer of sound healing with your intuitive body & mind: that’s right, not complete woo-woo, however, you could take up this as your skill and knowledge to build your intuition and sensation to allow your body and mind to receive as gift! You never know … Moreover, “Research has already demonstrated that sound healing can be incredibly beneficial when working with [a variety of] patients”.

Life always forgives you-- do you know how to work with your subconscious mind? There is no one, also give no one in all the world the power to deflect you from your own vision, goal, aim in life or mission or objective to success in life, which is to express your hidden talents to the world, to serve humanity, simply mean: the survivor, the being that seeks to survive since the day you step into the world, definitely, we are the being here to reveal more and more of the Divine wisdom, truth, and beauty to all beings in this world. What we realize: what someone else say cannot really annoy or irritate you unless you permit it to disturb you. The only path by which other people can upset you is through your own thought. If you get angry, you have to go through your mind to process it as such-- you'll begin to think what was said? you decide to get angry and generate the emotion of rage! you decide to act. you may talk back and react in kind too. Do you realize it: the thought, emotion, reaction, and action all take place in your own mind. This is the moment that we have to ask a simple question: the life principle that you hold? What is that exactly? The life principle holds a bottomless fund of forgiveness for you. It forgives you when you cut your finger. It gives thanks when you feel that you're given love. You realized that you are loving and be loved. Unless you choose to hold the life principle- life holds grudges against you. The subconscious intelligence within you sets about immediately to repair it. New cells build bridges over the cut. If you contract an infection from a harmful organism, life forgives you and set about surrounding and annihilating the invader. If you burn your hand, the life principle reduces the edema and congestion and gives your new skin, tissue and cells. Life holds no grudges against you. It's always forgiving you. Life, always, bring you back to health, vitality, harmony, love, joy and peace. If you cooperate by thinking in harmony with nature. Whatever negative, hurtful memories, bitterness, painful experience in the form of memories, and even ill- feeling or mentally or physically, they will clutter up and impede the free flow of the life- principle within you. Find out- what is the life- principle about? Learn and practice it. Whatsapp us at +60129868346 to find out more. #consciousness #subconsciousness #life #harmony #pain #trauma #innerchild #chakra #hooponopono

Psychedelic substances have been regarded as sacred by indigenous cultures and considered a necessary tool to tap into the collective God-consciousness by many believers of the psychedelic medicines, or some of us may name them “Hippie” … #psychidelic #sacredmedicine #consciousness #ayahuasca What do you think? From healing the sick to furthering artistic endeavors, the act of hallucinating or envisioning usually facilitates advancement for the seeker. We will take a journey into the history and evolution of hallucinogenics. The many facets of psychedelics range from recreational “tripping” to Shamanic journeying. Opening the gateways of our inner mind and spirit is accomplished through various natural methods as well as synthetically comprised. Good Trip A “good trip” can be described through so many emotions. Feeling radiant and blissful with intense laughter are just a few keywords that touch on the “high” felt. Merging with the cosmos and sensing transcendence is commonly the final aspiration. Out-of-body experiences can also take place. The doors are opened up to the higher dimensions of consciousness that are usually unobtainable in our 3rd-dimensional reality. Some participants have claimed to have seen archetypal beings, mythical fairies, elves, and fanciful creatures, meeting up with Gods, Goddesses and etc … even exploring the creation defects, rectifying some issues of Higher being … There is no telling what a person might hallucinate under these circumstances. Bad Trip We have always heard news stories about people jumping out of windows or doors who thought they could fly. This shows the impulsive, delusional side of hallucinating. These people may be in a panic mode or just convinced they are superhuman & they are in guilt or doubt or eventually halted by ghosts or demons or whatever at time. Sometimes it is like playing roulette with not really knowing what will ultimately occur during those hours of inebriation. Many people have a buddy system in place to help them through the hours just in case the experience takes a darker turn. Exploratory vs. Controversy senario- or rather it’s truth! Even with all, its public stigma through the recent decades, experiencing the world of psychoactive is still sought after within the suburbs and inner cities to the jungles of South America or even to those places that we still believe are definitely it’s an opportunity for self to explore the psychedelic journey. Those who discover psychedelics are usually left with a lasting impression for their lifetime, be it good or bad. The realities through transcendence on a conscious level are altered forever through the act of taking a mind-warping trip. After consumption, perceptions may be heightened. Trailing effects are often lingering. Creativity may be pictured in a whole new light. Our purpose in life perhaps will be met with less self-judgment and more clarity. Based on years of experience coaching people, healing journeys, we are neither meant to condone nor ignore the possibilities of the intelligently derived gifts the universe has left for humanity to discover. It is merely supposed to unlock the history, trends, and journey into a psychedelic trip. However, simply summarized that this is a form of energetic healing, the power comes from the respective being, your HIGHER SELF, soul, integrated with your body & mind, intent and opening your heart to receive the love held in the Universe. Receiving the sacred medicine healing, basically, means, you’re ready, you feel strong to activate your personal healing power so you can pull from that reservoir when you are emotionally or physically drained. In this way you will be taking responsibility for your own self-healing for that is where all healing lies. We organize small group retreat from time to time, either in the private group, couple sessions, private session in the guided set- up with series of diet management, meditation and etc to allow self- exploration– you can contact us directly for discussion and experience purposes.

Another very powerful prayer of Morrnah Simeona, it is her favorite (karmic) cleansing prayer. According to her, it works best if you repeat it four times every time you want to release something. “Spirit, Superconscious, please locate the origin of my feelings, thoughts of ……. (fill in the blank with your belief, feeling, or thoughts that you want to erase) ……. Take each and every level, layer, area, and aspect of my being to this origin. Analyze it and resolve it perfectly with God’s truth. Come through all generations of time and eternity. Healing every incident and its appendages based on the origin. Please do it according to God’s will until I am at the present, Filled with light and truth. God’s peace and love, forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions. Forgiveness of every person, place, circumstances and events which contributed to this, these feelings, thoughts, and beliefs.” Ho'oponopono is an ancient Hawaiian spiritual practice that involves learning to heal all things by accepting "Total Responsibility" for everything that surrounds us – confession, repentance, and reconciliation.

All my family, friends, relatives and ancestors, I (say your birth name), from the beginning of time to the present (say what you’re called today!): Thank you for allowing us to be gathered here in your love. We come to you for protection, love and healing. We are in any way through thoughts, actions, words or deeds caused any stress or wrong, we transgressed or trespassed against ourselves all times, we seek for forgiveness truly from deep within our inner heart. The “I” within us outside for We asked for unwanted energy of any kind in our body, mind and soul, that you please cleanse, purify, release or transmute any and all of these unwanted energy into pure divine light. We humbly request you sever and cut all aka cords and pull them from our body, mind and soul to fill in all those empty spaces within our body, mind and soul with pure divine light as well. In the name of the Divine Creator, we ask that this be done, and it’s done! As we release and set free, we in turn are released and set free as well. Guide us, remove all distressed and shower us with your love. Energize, renew, revive our minds, hearts and souls so that we live a good life. Thank you. #akacords #clearing #revival #transformation #lifechange #drhewlian #cleanse #universal #creator #energybalancing #Gratitude #Healing #hooponopono #repentance Let's explore another powerful prayer

The Ayahuasca Pre-Diet: How to Prepare for an Ayahuasca Ceremony, According to Shamans Generally, most of the people will mention: - A healthy diet before the ceremony consists of lots of fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains (like rice, quinoa, and oats), and legumes (like beans, lentils, and peas). While cooking, be sparing with oil (olive or coconut are preferred), without salt, spices and sugar. - Avoid the consumption of alcohol, stimulants, opiates and other drugs in the weeks before ayahuasca (recommend at least 3-4 weeks prior). It is also very important to reduce expectations about the ses- sion (unrealistic expectations are frequent) while establishing a definite intention (what you would like to get out of the session). - The dieta is extremely strict and includes no salt, no oils, no spices, no sugar and no sexual activity. Most often, the dieta consists of rice, potato, and occasionally, preferably organic based- boiled chicken or fish, plantain or egg. - Avoid all dairy products as well as avocado, chocolate, and refined sugar. Honey is okay but try to limit your intake and use natural, organic honey. - Avoid all processed foods minimize acidic fruits, red meat, pork, and dark beverages for at least 7 days. Instead, think whole foods. Super foods such as cacao, almonds, legumes, beets, berries, etc.do wonders for our mental, emotional, and physical bodies. The strict version: if you REALLY want to eat the strictest of the strict ayahuasca dieta preparation, you can only eat: green bananas yucca boiled plantains with no oil fish rice water Nothing else! Oh, and don’t forget, no sex! ? This is the strict version. However, we adhere to the lighter ayahuasca dieta guidelines in preparation for ayahuasca ceremony, listed below, and we get good results with these suggestions from our ayahuasca shaman. Foods You CAN Eat for Ayahuasca Diet Preparation Olive oil Coconut oil Honey Stevia A little dairy but not a lot of dairy: yogurt, small amount of milk Rice, quinoa, amaranth Fish Fruits Vegetables Nuts Eggs Foods NOT to Eat for Ayahuasca Diet Preparation Garlic Onions Hot spices Fat from meat No pork, red meat, ONLY organic chicken or fish is ok! Sugar (Use stevia as a substitute if you like) Salt (Use Bragg’s Liquid Aminos as a substitute if you like) Fermented foods Wine, beer or hard alcohol Butter, cheese Chocolate (No substitute!) ? Coffee (Drink Green Tea as a substitute if you like) Pepper Processed foods (Nothing in a box or can with ingredients you can’t pronounce) Pharmaceuticals EXCEPT for heart issues, high blood pressure, diabetes and life threatening illnesses Absolutely NO pharmaceuticals for depression, psychosis or mental illnesses (Dangerous in combination with Ayahuasca) "The ancestral medicine taken as a holistic medicine in a positive ceremonial scene under the guidance and guidance of a competent being, can be the beginning of a process of personal and spiritual discovery that will continue indefinitely, even if you should never take again. " Below, you will find a list of substances that should not be taken 12 hours before and 12 hours after taking Ayahuasca. Dangerous: Antidepressants Sleeping pills Anesthetics Medications against migraine Allergy medications Cough medicines Amphetamines Alcohol Ephedra / ephedrine Pseudoephedrine Macromerine Phentermine It can cause pain or nausea: Dairy products (butter, yogurt with sugar and cream) All cheeses (except fresh cheese) Dried and fermented sausage (mortadella, salami, corned beef ...) All meats, fish and eggs not fresh Pickled herring and dried salted fish Extracts of meat Yeast extracts Sauerkraut Jams Oilseeds (peanuts, nuts ...) Beans, beans, lentils, peas and soy ... Soy sauce, miso Nutmeg Industrial chocolate Industrial coffee, soft drinks, energy drinks Ginseng Grass of San Juan Nasal sprays (Vicks Sinex, Prevalin or Otrivin) Let's explore some diets preparation video:

There are people who believe that making money—along with anything else that engages human passion—falls into the category of “permissible sins.” Meaning: really, you should be living as an angel in meditation and prayer. But since, in real world, as truth of life, you have to live, better you keep busy with something productive than run around committing more serious sins. It’s not true. There are no permissible sins. All of life is beautiful and intended for beauty. You just need to know when, how and for what. The universe is a violin. Is a violin good or bad? A violin is the most soulful and expressive of all instruments. But if you’re not a trained violinist, draw the bow across its strings and you’ll produce the most nerve-pain or hacking sounds you’ll never want to hear. Everything the Creator (Universe) designed is like that violin. “Everything God or Allah or Universe or Creator or whoever we believe which created in his (her) world,” says the holy books from whatever sources ... , “The Creator created only for thy glory.” Including those things that humankind only later discovered hiding in wait for them. And even those things that so many have hijacked for selfish purposes, nowadays which we could see in the spiritual world. Even money. Money is good, making money is good— you just have to play the game the way it was meant to be played. The world is a violin. You just need to know how to play it right. Just remember this, you came to this world to do something amazing, wild and radical...

Appreciate of contribution from: Willie Baker w.baker.dec.1985@gmail.com Being a child therapist is an important job that involves shaping the futures of today's youth. This profession is gratifying yet still has its downfalls, like any other job. To learn about the pros and cons of being a child therapist, continue reading. The Pros Pro #1 - You can get joy and personal satisfaction from helping children in need. Treating kids and teenagers with mental, emotional, social, and misconduct issues might be one of the main parts of filling in as a child therapist. During the typical day for a child therapist, they will work with kids and their families. They will do play, art-based and speech therapies to assist them with creating other advanced survival techniques and figure out life's explicit problems. A child psychology and therapy profession can be satisfying because you get to see the consequences of your work. Whenever kids experience pressure or emotional well-being issues, helping them adapt and lead more joyful, better and more useful lives can be incredibly rewarding. Pro #2 - There is a wide variety of different career paths and work settings to choose from. While evaluating the advantages and disadvantages of being a child therapist, you'll observe that juvenile brain research jobs allow working in various settings. For example, emergency clinics, private practices, schools, psychological well-being facilities and public community-based venues. Furthermore, many child therapists begin an assortment of combination routines, like working during the day in a school and seeing private clients in the evening or doing research studies and educating in a school or college. The broad possibilities accessible in child psychology research and therapy can keep the work from becoming unremarkable and open you to a wide assortment of clients. Pro #3 - You can make the decisions and be your own boss. As a child therapist, your knowledge can be helpful in various settings. It was referenced before that you can work in private practice or the school setting. However, that isn't all—you can also be your own boss. Different spots that might fit you better are in the in-patient or out-patient setting, in a shared community centre, or you can function as a specialist. Having a lot of decision making and command over your workplace is one of the biggest pros of being a child therapist. There is a spot for everybody. Pro #4 - Child therapists are in demand and have a reasonable job growth rate. Like never before, those who need it will seek your skills during this time. This can be because of the many issues confronting society and children and teenagers today. Life is no longer as simple as it used to be. As the Bureau of labour statistics says, the work developed for this field is expected to grow around 8% between 2020 and 2030. Although the projected number might be small, it is comparable to different occupations. Your professional decision to become a child therapist is filling in a positive heading. The Cons Con #1 - You will be at a higher risk for burnout and emotional stress. The average day for a child therapist includes dealing with the emotional and mental hardships experienced by kids and families, and this isn't simply all the time. As indicated by the American Psychological Association, the pressure of managing individuals in need is one of the topmost harmful work-related for people working in the psychology field. For instance, child therapists could work with kids who have been maltreated or neglected or who have encountered terrible life events and losses. Regardless of their schooling, preparation and abilities, child therapists might experience issues keeping up with proficient limits and shielding themselves from emotional pressure in such difficult circumstances. Along these lines, you'll have to consider this while considering child psychology and therapy professions. Con #2 - You may have to work a crazy and inconsistent schedule with long hours. While some child therapists have regular hours, mainly if they work in schools or comparative settings, numerous child therapists should work sporadic or extended periods to take care of patients' necessities. For a large portion of the year, kids go to class during the day, and their folks should typically work or take care of different obligations. Numerous child therapists, particularly those independently employed in private practice, may have to work at night or on the ends of the week to oblige patients' timetables. Con #3 - Your licence to practice isn't valid in every country You might be truly excited once you finish your permit test since now you can finally begin to practise. Indeed, it would be nice for you to believe that you don't anticipate packing and moving to a new ecountry. Although each country expects that you have a permit, your permit doesn't give you the honour to practice in each country. You might be expected to pay extra charges, take additional classes, and finish tests, including permitting tests, to rehearse outside of the spot you were at first authorized in. A non-adaptable permit is most certainly positioning high on the rundown of inconveniences of being a child therapist. #therapist #childrenprogram #mindfulness #children #child #counseling #expectation #lifecoach

The Trinity of Truth, Trust and Passion anchors the healing of love within the self. If you integrate the trinity into all facets of life, the choices you make will move you into balance and fulfillment. It is the basis of love. Look at it as a three-legged stool: if one leg is shorter than the rest, the stool will not sit correctly. Shorten any one leg enough and the stool will topple. This is why we place so much emphasis on the Trinity. Truth Truth is the essence from which all reality extends. It is not just a word but the totality of understanding how life works. There are no such things as half-truths, shaded-truths, or one of the best, little white lies. I say this because when you begin to experience being in truth at all times, you will dislike the feeling of hearing untruth. How often have you told one lie, only to have to formulate others to cover it up? When you start down the path of total truth, believe me, there is no turning back. One of the most important truths is self-love, which means being true to yourself. You are usually being true to yourself because your essence is that of the Creator, which is unconditional love. In your society, you are taught to help and love others, but you are not taught to love yourself. If you would shower yourself with love, you would become so full of love that you would be able to share it with others. The most important person to love is you. Everyone needs love. When you do not have self-love, you seek it elsewhere, oftentimes by substituting external things such as drugs and alcohol, and most often, by abusing self or others. When you accept total Truth in your life, it becomes evident that Truth is actually self-love. Trust In order to fully understand trust, you must realize the power of knowing, which comes from being in your truth. To align with trust, you must understand that it happens on a deeper level than you may be willing to experience. Trust is more than a word it is a resonance. Whether in a personal relationship or a business deal, the same rules apply. Once the feeling is established, it would make sense never to let anything happen to it. When the essence of trust is secure, a new reality forms because you are moved to make decisions from the state of love as opposed to fear. When you find trust a part of your everyday life, you can literally begin to move to higher levels. When you accept that trust springs forth from your intuition, then growth becomes the art of trusting this intuition. Passion Passion is the feeling, the exhilaration, the spice of life. To have passion, to feel love fully, you need to be in touch with your emotions. Now I am not saying that it is bad to be analytical. Whatever you are is absolutely perfect, but what you are really striving for is the balance of mind and emotions. Babies are passion. They are about the purest of feelings in the here and now. They come with no judgment, for most of them live in a perfect world. When it's not perfect, they don't hesitate to let everyone know. Their world consists mainly of feelings. They have no hesitation in adjusting their feelings when their trust or truth is tested. It is only after many years of hand-me-down ideas that they relinquish their childhood innocence and make decisions on how they are judged by others. Often you block your feelings because of past hurts. Trust that everything that happened, including the pain, was perfect and exactly what your higher self had planned. Trust that your higher self wanted you to experience the so-called "pain" so that you could work through it and learn trust, forgiveness, and love. Then you would truly understand the meaning of these concepts on a deeper level. You could then release some of your anger and allow yourself to experience your feelings again. Often you don't express your true feelings because you fear what others think. Maybe you are afraid that you will be judged. Allow yourself to experience all feelings, good and bad, without judgment. If you're depressed, give yourself permission to feel that way because that's part of being human. Release the "I shouldn't feel that way" judgment. If you don't block your feelings, you will feel the depths of depression. Emotions work their way through you to be released. Getting stuck in your emotions with self-pity or "Why me?" creates blocks. If you block an emotion, it stays with you because it can never work its way through to release. If you experience an emotion, know that whatever you experience is perfect. Trust that this is what your higher self has chosen for you to experience for your growth, and eventually the emotion will work its way through and be released. You will feel clean because the emotion worked its way through without blockages. And when you allow yourself to feel negative emotions, you feel positive emotions with much more vitality. This is how to feel passion, and how you open your heart. Passion is about doing everything with a real purpose. If you can't put the passion in, if you can't put in the feeling, then don't do it. "I can't have Passion all the time," you may say. Yes, you can! Passion is the essence of seeing the Light in everything. Updated on: 29 Aug 2021

What does making peace with the past mean? Is that important to make peace with the past? Can I make peace with myself? It means: - going to a place where there are no lies about what happened or excuses for yourself. - finding peace with that failure so you can make something beautiful from it and move forward in life. Now go— find the strength to make peace with your past. And then, put peace with the past to work. Whether you can't stop rehashing conversations and arguments that happened at any time (usually all past issues), or you're always beating yourself up for a mistake you made years ago, dwelling on the past can keep you stuck in that same place of pain. You can't be your strongest (alternative words: lovely? Peaceful? Happy?) self when your brain is preoccupied with prior mistakes, past hurts, and nagging regret. Being stuck in the past is one of the most common issues that we have to identify, for instance: While some people have PTSD, BPD, ADHD, DID, RSD … that makes it hard to move forward, others are simply stuck in rumination mode and they can't let go of something that already happened. Although a certain amount of self-reflection can of course be healthy for you, sometimes to become your strongest self, you have to be able to focus on the present. Looking backward makes it impossible to enjoy what's going on around you right now, and it prevents you from making the future as good as it can be. While there are many mental strength exercises been recommended or suggested medically, life coach method or somehow a lot of approaches that may suit you at the time that can help you stop dwelling on the past, 2 most strategies that can help you move forward: 1. Make peace with your past. You may need to spend a little time thinking about why you're stuck in the past. Do you feel like you aren't worthy of moving forward? Maybe you hurt someone and you think staying stuck in the past is your punishment. Are you holding onto a grudge because you think your anger diminishes someone else's life? Maybe someone hurt you, and you're afraid moving on would mean what they did wasn't that bad. Sometimes, dwelling on the past is an easy way to distract yourself from the present. If you find yourself unhappy now, you might be tempted to romanticize how much happier you were "back then." Perhaps you recall all the good things that happened in a previous relationship, and you filter out all the arguments and problems that led you to break up. Or maybe you beat yourself up for making "the wrong choice". But the truth is, you never know what life would have had in store for you if you'd made a different choice. Depending on your circumstances, you may just need to give yourself permission to move forward, and then make a conscious effort to stop yourself every time you keep dwelling on the past. Did something traumatic happen, and you never sought healing or necessary treatment? If something serious or a tragic event is what is causing you to focus on the past, you may benefit from professional help to assist you in healing that old emotional wound. Speaking to a qualified mental health professional could help you finally leave the past behind you. 2. Focus on the lessons you learned. Thinking about the unfairness or the unpleasantness of an event will keep you stuck. To heal, you may need to spend some time focusing on the facts, not the emotions. Walk yourself through a painful memory, and think about the facts, not your distress. Remember where you were sitting, what you were doing, who was there, and what happened to you. Then consider the lessons you learned from surviving that painful thing or for enduring that difficult experience. Some of the best life lessons can be learned from the toughest times you've endured. So, whether you write in a journal or you replay the story inside your head, practice going through the details as if you were a narrator who simply recounts the facts. Doing this a few times can help take the emotional sting out of the experience. Accept Your Past, Embrace Your Present, Plan for Your Future Refusing to dwell on the past isn't about ignoring the things that happened. Instead, it often means embracing and accepting your experiences so you can live in the present. So, recognize the emotional toll that dwelling on something is taking on you, and then give yourself permission to move forward. If someone has wronged you, this may involve practicing forgiveness. This doesn't mean to "forgive and forget." You may have to stick to your decision to have no contact with the person. But focus on forgiving by letting go of the hurt or anger you feel toward that person. Your vision of the future should be about who you want to become --not who you used to be. So while you can reflect on the past enough to learn from it, make sure to let go of whatever anger, shame, or guilt is holding you back from moving forward. updated on 27 Aug 2021